Can't find "normal" gay people?

[greenekid21]

I can understand why you feel this way. I'm in college right now and I'm apart of the lgbt and a majority of them are pro gay rights, gender studies and etc. I appreciated it and respect it but I feel so distant from them because I'm not interested in it. I feel like an outcast among the gays, and even though I'm not really straight acting...I'm average, I'm kinda alone, I can't really connect with anyone. It can be really annoying, especially since I have no one to talk to, not even my associates and roommates, but the more you go out and experience stuff you'll meet ppl who are in the same shoes as you, that's what I'm doing.

[Mrmatty376]

I have nothing to add. I just agree with everyone lol. This is probably why I like so many straight people rather than other gay people. The only gay people I know are way out there and I don't understand it. I just like to be me and not have my sexuality define me and I'd like to meet another guy that is the same way. I came out to one of my friends and she had asked my why I'm not super girly or why I don't dress the guys on the tv and she asked me if I'll start to. It was pretty annoying lol. I had to explain to her that nothing has or will change about me, and the only thing different about me now and me for the past 20 years is that now someone else knows what gender I prefer. But anywho, I get what you all mean. hehe