04-28-2012, 01:48 AM
Alright,
So as of late I've been thinking about some guys that I've met and hung out with only once and after that I never see them again. I mean, not on a date or sex-type thing, but someone you meet randomly through friends or whatever, and after that one day you never see them again.
I remember this past winter, my friend asked me to see her in Boston for a few days. So I drove up there and me, her, and her boyfriend at that time were all hanging out at her boyfriends place. He shared the place with this other guy who's into Paganism, metaphysics, etc etc stuff like that. Once you get him started on a topic he just won't stop talking about it. And I loved talking about those subjects, and we just clicked, so much so that it annoyed my friend because I ended up ignoring her throughout the night.
I had so much fun talking to him about all those topics and it seemed that it'd never end. He was an all around nice guy, he was also gay, but I never flirted or anything. We just talked. And after that night, I never saw him again.
Sometimes I wonder what if, and then I laugh at myself and tell myself it'd be weird or something. It just sucks sometimes, cause I've made so many wonderful connections with guys [or people in general] and after that one encounter I never hear from them or see them again.
Has anyone else ever had this happen to them before? Or is it just a 'me' thing, lol
So as of late I've been thinking about some guys that I've met and hung out with only once and after that I never see them again. I mean, not on a date or sex-type thing, but someone you meet randomly through friends or whatever, and after that one day you never see them again.
I remember this past winter, my friend asked me to see her in Boston for a few days. So I drove up there and me, her, and her boyfriend at that time were all hanging out at her boyfriends place. He shared the place with this other guy who's into Paganism, metaphysics, etc etc stuff like that. Once you get him started on a topic he just won't stop talking about it. And I loved talking about those subjects, and we just clicked, so much so that it annoyed my friend because I ended up ignoring her throughout the night.
I had so much fun talking to him about all those topics and it seemed that it'd never end. He was an all around nice guy, he was also gay, but I never flirted or anything. We just talked. And after that night, I never saw him again.
Sometimes I wonder what if, and then I laugh at myself and tell myself it'd be weird or something. It just sucks sometimes, cause I've made so many wonderful connections with guys [or people in general] and after that one encounter I never hear from them or see them again.
Has anyone else ever had this happen to them before? Or is it just a 'me' thing, lol