I had a friend that told me he was a pedophile and once he did I pretty much dropped him as a friend and to this day I feel extremely bad about it because like 2 weeks later I found out that he killed himself. The police got involved when they found a letter stating that he killed himself because he was a pedophile and nobody wanted to help him. They checked his computers and his house and found that he had nothing illegal so they closed the case. I still feel guilty that perhaps I could have done something to help him before he ended his life.
This is a very sticky topic and when it comes to pedophilia its a very touchy subject.
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(I apologize in advance if my opinion or directness offends any one.)
Your friend is a very sick predator ,who feeds on destroying the innocence of a child.
I am not going to tell you, what I would do about him.
Do what you feel is right, he needs professional help.
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He needs help! Before he does something he can't take back and some poor child is messed up for good.
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I pretty much agree with Rainbowmum's feelings.
mental disorder or not, he is a vile predator of the innocent and needs to be stopped before he ends up hurting someone.
I could go on, but I don't want to get all preachy and self-righteous so I'll hold my tongue on the rest of my feelings.
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dfiant Wrote:Laws are Laws...and there is no such thing as a 'little bit' of a paedophile...you are either a paedophile or you aren't...if you ARE responsible for the sexual exploitation of minors and children, you ARE a paedophile.
Your friend IS a paedophile...no two ways about it, he may not have had sex with a child, but he is without a doubt looking/watching material of children being sexually abuse...HE IS A PAEDOPHILE.
GIVE HIM THE ULTIMATUM
Pure unfounded speculation.
At least be deccent enough to give the guy you've never met, the benefit of the doubt.
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My brother came out and told me that he was a pedophile and was attracted to young boys and I hated him for telling me and wish that he would have never said a thing to me because like 3 weeks later he ended up molesting a child and he got caught in the act by the boys mother and he went to prison for 5 years and then got out and then did it again and again. I keep wondering if I could have prevented him from ever doing anything and hurting the children that he hurt. He sent me letters telling me to come visit him and I never have. He is currently in prison for child molestation and they just keep giving him 2nd and 3rd and 4th chances. I just wish that they would keep him in prison for the rest of his life. I have no clue why he told me and I never asked him, I am not sure if he told me because I was gay and he thought that I had the same desires or what. Its just very strange
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