No one is evil black or white pristine
We're all shades of gray within
To you there may be no rhyme or reason
Which is why you've to have compassion
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There is a song (or should be one) with the line 'Looking for love in all the wrong places.'
If the type of people you find yourself around are less than savory, perhaps the problem is not the species, but where you are meeting these individuals.
For instance, if you want a relationship with a drunk, then you should go out to the bars to find a man. If you are interested in a drug user then might ?I suggest the local drug dealers.
IF you are looking for quality men who are looking for honest to god relationships, then don't go to Grinder or other hook-up sites, but find the sites where the ads are not 'Single Gay Man ISO A giant cock for wild sex'.
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