explanations / things about me / etc

[princealbertofb]

Megumi, good for you. I'm glad we had that little conversation together the other day. I think I understand how much this means to you and how much you need to get rid of this awful feeling. You're right no one's responsible for the gender they are, nor even really with being comfortable with that gender. It is so often assumed that a girl will grow up to be a girl and a boy will grow up to be a boy, but we also know that those notions can be totally overturned by mind bending and abuse.
I'm very sorry that you had to undergo the things you described and wish we could kiss it better. But the best you can do is to let it all out and disown it. It happened, yes, but it has to be a thing of the past. Something which defines who you are today (and the person you are today is strong and won't take anyone's sh*t! Way to go, Megumi!)
Here's a virtual since we cannot do it in person. And thanks for standing up for your gender... Women are wonderful.

[dfiant]

Love you

Love Kyoto too...unfortunately I only got to spend 1 day in Kyoto when I lived in Osaka for a year.

[megumidesu]

And I'm wondering, if you don't mind sharing...how did you get into foster care?

i wasn't really in on any of the details ; my mom sorted everything . my best friend's parents wanted me to stay with them as soon as i got out of hospital , but there was a lot of legal sh*t to sort out . and my mom didn't want me staying with her while all that happened ,so i don't know ... she got me put in foster care while we waited to find out if my best friend's parents were going to be able to take care of me .

i didn't really listen/pay attention to much of what was going on at that time ... so i'm probably missing out some really important bit lol ~

[Evan88]

Thank you for sharing your story with us Megumi..You're so brave and had been through a lot. And I salute you for that.

[Corsac]

Fake........

Your lack of respect is duly noted, you don't know Megumi to be able to make that judgement either.

If your intention is to troll then please go and do it elsewhere, it's boring to see and only makes you look bad.

[gayboyindia24]

@megumidesu-sympathising and empathising is also not enough.When i read such articles,I feel so helpless,loathed and tears fill in my eyes.Everywhere the story is same,women are still considered inferior,ofcourse its a fallacy.Who are WE to decide that.I am from India.In our country we have have given women Godessess status(hindu religion) but it is just a said thing because still in some parts of our country,there is excessive female foeticite because these barbarians think a girl child would be a burden for them. A very recent case,a 23yr old woman was brutally gangraped in a moving bus by 5men,hit her by an iron rod and they were done,these demons forced the rod in her genital and threw her from the bus.We all indians are fighting for a strict punishment. Sometimes i feel thank God i am gay atleast this way i wouldn't sexually objectify women. A relationship of a father and daughter is so inexplicably beautiful that some demons in disguise have ruined it.I am crying.All i can say to you is be strong and you are.I feel like coming to you and give you a tightest hug and accompany while you weep.GOD HELP HER..SHE IS YOUR DAUGHTER.

[trywait]

gomenesai for the late reply megumi.

thank you for sharing.... at least now, u are a much stronger and braver person than you give yourself credit!

cheers to all the blessings u have in your life now! after all, doesnt your name mean blessing or grace?

[elad12]

Megumi,

Thanks for that post. It was posted before I was even here but reading it this morning it touched me and your story gives me strength in my own healing process. You are a blessing here at GS