welcome to GaySpeak, it gets getter here after about 30-50 posts if thats what you are thinking.
you know; 3-5% of the population is gay making it a 95% chance this person is NOT gay.
I think you are doing the right thing, being close to him; at some point you need to pull away, remain a friend or he is gay.
Find a gay man who will appreciate you for who you are.
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Since you are talking to him, try dropping some subtle hints like you are pro gay marriage or you have some really great gay friends and see how he responds. At least that way you can judge if he's a gay basher or not. If not, then you might have a shot. Of course if he starts gay bashing, there's a good chance he's not gay.
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Hi and welcome , I agree with Beau on this.
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You can message me whenever! I am going through the same thing...
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Make sure he's into guys first... thats a must before you try anything
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