On a more emotional note, I feel like my haven was violated, and part of me craves retribution.
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Counselor Wrote:In the simplest of terms, I feel this community has been betrayed, and unrepentant treachery of this caliber is not something I am prepared to forgive. This parasite has leeched the sense of security that every member here has the right to experience.
I feel like that too. But my brain is telling me, there is no security and privacy on the internet. We may want to have GS all fluffy, happy and sacred place, but I fear it never will be. If we close our eyes and believe in it, we may think it is that way. But look at how many guests are coming every day. We are here like in a shop window, not in a private living room.
Counselor Wrote:I don't mean this to be pointed at you directly, but I wonder why so few of you are not as angry as I am.
I know hardly any details. I wonder what would happen if Blue appeared here one day with completely different story.
Say, he was drunk and didn't know what he was doing and he is very sorry.
I don't know, Counselor. Feeling justified anger is certainly better than doubting or simply not knowing.
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Nick9 Wrote:I feel like that too. But my brain is telling me, there is no security and privacy on the internet. We may want to have GS all fluffy, happy and sacred place, but I fear it never will be. If we close our eyes and believe in it, we may think it is that way. But look at how many guests are coming every day. We are here like in a shop window, not in a private living room.
I know hardly any details. I wonder what would happen if Blue appeared here one day with completely different story.
Say, he was drunk and didn't know what he was doing and he is very sorry.
I don't know, Counselor. Feeling justified anger is certainly better than doubting or simply not knowing.
From this thread alone, you should be able to determine that Blue DID know what he was doing, has done it before, and is not apologetic. And this is not a very long thread. It would probably be longer if everyone that actually believes that trolls, predators, parasites and other pathetic creatures have no place here actually voiced their opinion in it.
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Bowyn mentioned that Blue had been a former drug addict. I have no experience with drugs and have no idea how people behave when they are high. Could the drugs change his behavior?
I simply don't know, Counselor. I've been thinking about it for some time like everybody here, but so far I haven't gotten to the anger stage. I am rather frustrated and disappointed.
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Nick9 Wrote:Bowyn mentioned that Blue had been a former drug addict. I have no experience with drugs and have no idea how people behave when they are high. Could the drugs change his behavior?
I simply don't know, Counselor. I've been thinking about it for some time like everybody here, but so far I haven't gotten to the anger stage. I am rather frustrated and disappointed.
It depends on the drug, but I can't think of a drug that looks for victims. Blue made that choice, not drugs.
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Bowyn Aerrow don't forget about the other stuff he did that we found in Horse Pro and aren't saying here and what we have both gone through that I think is his programming. He might or might not belong in out past but he's as bad as they are. He deserves the same as they do but let's see if the law can do well enough instead of letting him push us to more of what we fight not to do. If April 4 doesn't go well for us then you have my help for anything and that includes the worst we can do.
I'll let Bowyn Aerrow decide how much of the other stuff we have he wants to post here but Blue doesn't deserve sympathy at all and if I had known about that stuff he wouldn't have been able to even join GaySpeak or any other website. My blind trust nearly cost the life of one of my own but we have a chance to stop that and make sure it never happens to another so we have to make sure that's done so he can never hurt another person or another animal.
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If you are comfortable with posting all that other stuff, all of the names he uses and even a copy of that ID you found that is supposed to be his (still doubtful, the man on the horse doesn't look like the man in the photo ID to me) Go for it.
I do not want our emails posted. Too much emotion and too humiliating mind games are in those.
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Kat Wrote:Bowyn Aerrow don't forget about the other stuff he did that we found in Horse Pro and aren't saying here and what we have both gone through that I think is his programming. He might or might not belong in out past but he's as bad as they are. He deserves the same as they do but let's see if the law can do well enough instead of letting him push us to more of what we fight not to do. If April 4 doesn't go well for us then you have my help for anything and that includes the worst we can do.
I'll let Bowyn Aerrow decide how much of the other stuff we have he wants to post here but Blue doesn't deserve sympathy at all and if I had known about that stuff he wouldn't have been able to even join GaySpeak or any other website. My blind trust nearly cost the life of one of my own but we have a chance to stop that and make sure it never happens to another so we have to make sure that's done so he can never hurt another person or another animal.
What happens on April 4th?
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Nick9 Wrote:hmm , that was not what I meant. He looked OK when he was a member of GS. Then suddenly his behavior changed. Could that be caused by drugs? His running away, that letter, him being God knows where right now?
I'll spell out, then: he joined looking for an abuse survivor, someone he could manipulate and "play" with, then cut off all contact. Apparently, he's done it before. Of course he looked okay during his presence here, anything like saying, "hey, anybody here looking for a complete mindfuck?" would raise suspicion, so he had to be subtle. He fished for a little while, found a mark, lied a LOT, then just stopped talking altogether. If it was all just a colossal misunderstanding, I can't imagine why he wouldn't apologize. If it was because he was high, it should have worn off by now, and again, I can't imagine why he wouldn't just apologize. Having deleted his account here and others BA mentioned indicates that he doesn't intend to return (and deleting even one account is difficult when you're high, I imagine).
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ok, Counselor, post deleted, we can get mad at each other at some other place 
For the time being, let's agree that we disagree...
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