12-03-2012, 04:10 AM
Megumi, good for you. I'm glad we had that little conversation together the other day. I think I understand how much this means to you and how much you need to get rid of this awful feeling. You're right no one's responsible for the gender they are, nor even really with being comfortable with that gender. It is so often assumed that a girl will grow up to be a girl and a boy will grow up to be a boy, but we also know that those notions can be totally overturned by mind bending and abuse.
I'm very sorry that you had to undergo the things you described and wish we could kiss it better. But the best you can do is to let it all out and disown it. It happened, yes, but it has to be a thing of the past. Something which defines who you are today (and the person you are today is strong and won't take anyone's sh*t! Way to go, Megumi!)
Here's a virtual since we cannot do it in person. And thanks for standing up for your gender... Women are wonderful.
I'm very sorry that you had to undergo the things you described and wish we could kiss it better. But the best you can do is to let it all out and disown it. It happened, yes, but it has to be a thing of the past. Something which defines who you are today (and the person you are today is strong and won't take anyone's sh*t! Way to go, Megumi!)
Here's a virtual since we cannot do it in person. And thanks for standing up for your gender... Women are wonderful.