Since I dislike speaking of sex-related subjects I´ll try to be as straightforward as I can. The last couple of times I received oral sex I had this uncomfortable/painful sensation in the corona of the glans. There´s nothing visually unusual, and if I mas_____te it doesn’t bother me at all. So apparently is only with oral sex, and because of that I´ll assume that it has to do with the suction. Does anyone have any idea of why this might be?
I already find sex boring, and now it´s going to be uncomfortable as well? Great…
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More specifics would be helpful. Is the pain around the edge of the corona, is it the entire glans, is it underneath the corona, or is it possibly the urethra? Would you describe the pain as "sharp", "dull", "burning"?
It could be any number of things, but I will throw a few out there for you to investigate.
1. Infection- Whether STD or simple urinary infection, one of the telltale signs in men is pain, often times at or near the corona. Usually, this pain occurs during urination, but it can also occur as part of the process leading up to ejaculation.
2. Urethral irritation- Oral sex applies pressure (if done right- sorry...couldn't help myself) underneath the penis and particular pressure to the glans itself and to the urethra. The urethra can be damaged and/or irritated by rough play, rough oral sex, masturbation, or simply passing a small kidney stone. Once damaged, it needs time to heal.
3. Sensitivity- You haven't stated it, but a particular problem for some men who are uncircumcised is ultra-sensitivity. For some men, exposing the glans of the penis to the added stimulation of moisture (lubrication), a retracted foreskin, and the sucking action itself, can combine to cause a sympathetic nerve response that moves from intense pleasure into pain. This response might only be felt during oral sex as opposed to masturbation. If this is the case, there are products that will desensitize the area and help to reduce this response. Kama Sutra makes a flavored gel for just such a purpose. To test whether this might be the problem, try masturbating with a lubricant and attempt to imitate the pressure and moisture of oral sex. If there is pain again, then it is probably this problem.
4. Chafing- The final thing that I can think of off-hand, and that a lot of men don't know about, is simple chafing. The skin of the penis is just like skin anywhere else and can become chafed from repeated rubbing/friction. If this is the case, you will need to lay off the masturbation for a couple of days. Keep the corona clean with a mild soap. Then apply a hypoallergenic, non-mineral oil lotion to the corona after bathing and at least two times during the day. This problem will usually resolve in a short period of time.
I don't know if any of these things might be helpful. If you try something, and the pain persists, I would go to the doctor as soon as possible to get checked out. Okay?
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Do you wear tight underwear? If so, you might be getting rubbed the wrong way while wearing tight undies.
Try wearing loose undies and see if that helps.
It could also be that if you do wear loose undies, or no undies at all, you may be "swinging" too much.
You would then need to find some undies that arent tight, but dont let you hang loose.
This is why I perfer boxer briefs. They are just right for me, just for this reason.
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It may very well be the suction which is a different think than the friction of the hand/fingers.
However I wonder at the last tiny comment that you find sex boring. I wonder if the two are connected. I wonder if there isn't a medical condition affecting both your libido (interest in sex) and sensitivity/pain during intercourse.
I would suggest seeing a doctor and play the 20 questions game, perhaps a hormone test, examination down yonder. etc.
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It may be the person performing the oral sex is just no good, it does exist, ask them to be gentler, not copie what they have seen in some dreadfull porn film, and be more sensitive to your sensitive organ
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Has anyone mentioned teeth????
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