My first boyfriend, and I'm stressed AF.

[Aeneas]

You might be putting the cart before the horse.

Right now you have no idea of who he is, or what may or may not happen yet. There are a whole range of options open to you; why don't you start with - first things first - just meet him?

Then you can start to look at some of the options - should you chose.

*might* is the understatement of the year.


2 OP:

just meet him like any other regular person and see what comes out of it. perhaps he doesn't even dig you so thinking about relationship, marriage, getting a couple pets together is totally getting ahead of the situation.