04-21-2013, 04:31 PM
I am wondering if anyone else has ever had this problem. This has gone on for as long as I can remember (decades).
I have never been able to reach orgasm if I have to urinate. This occurs whether I am masturbating alone or having sex with a partner.
It is being particularly problematic now that I am dating someone after a very long time of not dating and I really want to achieve orgasm. Although he is completely understanding, I feel inadequate and embarrassed...not to mention frustrated.
My Urologist has never heard of this issue. I can't imagine that I am the only one that has experienced this, so I am bringing it to you all for your thoughts and experiences.
There has been a number of times, where I have had to leave the bedroom multiple times to go pee in hopes that I can reach orgasm. This is needless to say very disruptive and after a few times, the "mood" is lost.
I know that reaching orgasm isn't all of what is important in sex, but not being able to do so is really causing a problem for me.
Thank you.
I have never been able to reach orgasm if I have to urinate. This occurs whether I am masturbating alone or having sex with a partner.
It is being particularly problematic now that I am dating someone after a very long time of not dating and I really want to achieve orgasm. Although he is completely understanding, I feel inadequate and embarrassed...not to mention frustrated.
My Urologist has never heard of this issue. I can't imagine that I am the only one that has experienced this, so I am bringing it to you all for your thoughts and experiences.
There has been a number of times, where I have had to leave the bedroom multiple times to go pee in hopes that I can reach orgasm. This is needless to say very disruptive and after a few times, the "mood" is lost.
I know that reaching orgasm isn't all of what is important in sex, but not being able to do so is really causing a problem for me.
Thank you.