05-05-2013, 10:14 PM
"Oh no!" I don't blame you for thinking, "Just another teen-queen who thinks that their non-existent love life is the biggest issue in the world." You's be right. I won't blame you for clicking away now..... still here? Then I might as well tell you about my 'problem'.
Well there's this guy (Ben shall we say?) at school who I have a crush on. We're not best friends but we're in the same friend group and we are goo friends, we just haven't known each other properly for more than six months.
Well yes, I like him. A bit more than I should since he has a girlfriend (he is bisexual) but recently he's been doing things that are a bit confusing.
Thing number one: He admitted that he has thought about what it would be like to be in a relationship with me and said he liked the idea. He said this in a game of truth and dare (though not drunk) and I think he had his girlfriend at the time.
Thing number two: The mild flirting. Ok this 'thing' doesn't really apply because it's just something our whole group does, but I think this probably means he doesn't know I like him or he'd be too awkward to flirt? Maybe?
Thing number three: I don't remember how it came up but a friend said "Oh Ly's (me) just going to have to knock you out and sleep with you!" He then looked me in the eye and said "or he could just ask. It'd be quicker." I mean what the actual....
Thing number four: Again, in a context that I can't remember, he said "Well if I wasn't going out with Emma (the girlfriend) then I'd be going out with ly (le moi) wouldn't I?" He said this completely seriously and was completely oblivious to me and my other friends staring at him, a little bit shocked.
So obviously I haven't tried anything because he's in a relationship and I'm not a dick. I suppose what I'm asking is What the hell do I do? Do I tell him? Do I just continue to leave them being the happy couple that they sickeningly are? Do I wait and see if they break up? Do I try to break them up (not an option I'm at all keen on)?
I'm also fairly certain that I only like him because he's the only guy who likes guys except me around here so..... But then again we do have quite a bit in common and he's genuinely lovely..... Confused is the word I'm looking for.
So advice would be lovely if you could spare the time :3 Thanks
Well there's this guy (Ben shall we say?) at school who I have a crush on. We're not best friends but we're in the same friend group and we are goo friends, we just haven't known each other properly for more than six months.
Well yes, I like him. A bit more than I should since he has a girlfriend (he is bisexual) but recently he's been doing things that are a bit confusing.
Thing number one: He admitted that he has thought about what it would be like to be in a relationship with me and said he liked the idea. He said this in a game of truth and dare (though not drunk) and I think he had his girlfriend at the time.
Thing number two: The mild flirting. Ok this 'thing' doesn't really apply because it's just something our whole group does, but I think this probably means he doesn't know I like him or he'd be too awkward to flirt? Maybe?
Thing number three: I don't remember how it came up but a friend said "Oh Ly's (me) just going to have to knock you out and sleep with you!" He then looked me in the eye and said "or he could just ask. It'd be quicker." I mean what the actual....
Thing number four: Again, in a context that I can't remember, he said "Well if I wasn't going out with Emma (the girlfriend) then I'd be going out with ly (le moi) wouldn't I?" He said this completely seriously and was completely oblivious to me and my other friends staring at him, a little bit shocked.
So obviously I haven't tried anything because he's in a relationship and I'm not a dick. I suppose what I'm asking is What the hell do I do? Do I tell him? Do I just continue to leave them being the happy couple that they sickeningly are? Do I wait and see if they break up? Do I try to break them up (not an option I'm at all keen on)?
I'm also fairly certain that I only like him because he's the only guy who likes guys except me around here so..... But then again we do have quite a bit in common and he's genuinely lovely..... Confused is the word I'm looking for.
So advice would be lovely if you could spare the time :3 Thanks