05-15-2013, 10:47 PM
It should not matter. This subject should not even be any kind of issue, to anyone.
You are you. If they like you, they like you for the person you are, not who you want to date.
This bullshit of "closet" living has just gotten way out of control. It needs to be stopped!!
Do YOU like or love your friends and relatives because of their preferences for dating or getting married?
No.
Then there is NO reason they should have any problems with who you date....unless he's a real asshole or something.
You are you. Be you. You dont need to be telling anybody anything, unless you feel its something you want to tell. If they have a problem with who you date, then that isnt YOUR problem, its THEIR problem!!
Decent people dont care about your dating preferences (as long as they are legal and you arent getting hurt....like an abusive boyfriend). Decent people will like/love you for you, and as long as you are happy, they shouldnt be concerned about anyone you date.
You are you. If they like you, they like you for the person you are, not who you want to date.
This bullshit of "closet" living has just gotten way out of control. It needs to be stopped!!
Do YOU like or love your friends and relatives because of their preferences for dating or getting married?
No.
Then there is NO reason they should have any problems with who you date....unless he's a real asshole or something.
You are you. Be you. You dont need to be telling anybody anything, unless you feel its something you want to tell. If they have a problem with who you date, then that isnt YOUR problem, its THEIR problem!!
Decent people dont care about your dating preferences (as long as they are legal and you arent getting hurt....like an abusive boyfriend). Decent people will like/love you for you, and as long as you are happy, they shouldnt be concerned about anyone you date.