05-21-2013, 08:33 AM
Hey guys! Im Alex, 18 years of age, student. I was just looking for some forum where it would be fun to meet some new friends. But..the main point why i came is one problem. I would really appreciate some advice.
Well, I was in a relationship for 5 months and then we broke up because of him. I was really depressed but soon found HIM. He is 23, very cute guy, athletic. Actually, he had the same problem as me: he had recently broken up, so i "showed up" in the right time.
First time we met in the beginning of January and very soon I fell in love. So i thought did him. We saw each other very often, i was staying at his place, so everything seemed cool.
But after about 2 months he said that we wont be ever together as a couple.
After that we didnt see each other so often anymore. But anyway he says that he cares about me very much and dont wanna loose me.
We had an arguement recently and didnt chat for a week. I was trying my best not to start conversation first. And one day he texted me asking if i would like to come to his place. I asked why and he replied that misses me. (quite strange) So the next day we got together and I saw that he really did miss me. However, he still says that we cant be a couple cuz he doesnt love me but still cares about me(although we are kissing etc)
So why does he act like this? I love him very much, VERY much. I dont need anybody but him. And it really hurts hearing that he doesnt love me. Lots of people told me that i have to go further, but i just CANT. And even if i meet up with another guy, i feel like i am betraying him.
So guys, could anybody give me advice? Maybe somebody had the same situation?
Well, I was in a relationship for 5 months and then we broke up because of him. I was really depressed but soon found HIM. He is 23, very cute guy, athletic. Actually, he had the same problem as me: he had recently broken up, so i "showed up" in the right time.
First time we met in the beginning of January and very soon I fell in love. So i thought did him. We saw each other very often, i was staying at his place, so everything seemed cool.
But after about 2 months he said that we wont be ever together as a couple.
After that we didnt see each other so often anymore. But anyway he says that he cares about me very much and dont wanna loose me.
We had an arguement recently and didnt chat for a week. I was trying my best not to start conversation first. And one day he texted me asking if i would like to come to his place. I asked why and he replied that misses me. (quite strange) So the next day we got together and I saw that he really did miss me. However, he still says that we cant be a couple cuz he doesnt love me but still cares about me(although we are kissing etc)
So why does he act like this? I love him very much, VERY much. I dont need anybody but him. And it really hurts hearing that he doesnt love me. Lots of people told me that i have to go further, but i just CANT. And even if i meet up with another guy, i feel like i am betraying him.
So guys, could anybody give me advice? Maybe somebody had the same situation?