When to forgive...

[Ryocchi]

Forgive him & stop arguing....The next time you feel the urge to argue with him - go give him a hug instead. If your boyfriend still wants to argue,,, just smile and tell him you love him and don't want to argue with him.

Your relationship will go down hill fast unless you can turn it around. First off - the arguing has to stop!!...

Second, if you are continually telling your boyfriend you don't want to have sex ,,, he will think you don't find him sexually attractive anymore, or worse - that you don't love him. This situation will only harm your relationship, so start up that sex machine again!!!

All relationships take work, and it takes time to fix what has been broken. So be patient. Keep hugging him, kissing him, and saying nice things to him. Eventually it will sink in that you still love him.

Best of luck

I believe the op says he's going through a medical condition that doesn't let him bottom and then his partner doesn't want to bottom also, if your partner can support you through the downs show him the door, if he cannot understand is not something you can't control and has no vision to see it's just temporal, and on top of that guilt trips you... God, why are you still with him?

Relationships take work, that is so true but it takes work from both sides, if it doesn't then is called abbuse.