Not sure what to do!
09-09-2013, 05:46 PM
Your boyfriend should not have implied confidentiality if he was unable or unwilling not to break it.
Your friend shouldn't have disclosed something so personal to someone who was unwilling and unable to keep a confidence. ESPECIALLY if what your friend disclosed was so serious it could get him in to trouble.
Gossip is currency to many gay men, worse than CNN some of us!
You on the other hand, as the person who has kept the confidence have nothing to reproach yourself about.
I know that doesn't exactly help or make things better but there's little you can do.
Incidentally, if your friends secret is so terrible perhaps your boyfriends indiscretion will teach your friend to be more circumspect about his actions in the future.
Just remember that when the kaka hits the expellair, you're the innocent one with the right to purse your lips like a cat's bum and wag your finger at both of them!
Gay men, sheesh!
Your friend shouldn't have disclosed something so personal to someone who was unwilling and unable to keep a confidence. ESPECIALLY if what your friend disclosed was so serious it could get him in to trouble.
Gossip is currency to many gay men, worse than CNN some of us!
You on the other hand, as the person who has kept the confidence have nothing to reproach yourself about.
I know that doesn't exactly help or make things better but there's little you can do.
Incidentally, if your friends secret is so terrible perhaps your boyfriends indiscretion will teach your friend to be more circumspect about his actions in the future.
Just remember that when the kaka hits the expellair, you're the innocent one with the right to purse your lips like a cat's bum and wag your finger at both of them!
Gay men, sheesh!
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