Hello, Matt, and to GaySpeak.... So now that we know all about your hobbies, tell us a little bit about your gay life... Coming out? Not out yet? Trying to come out? Looking forward to getting married (although I think Pennsylvania has not made it legal yet??? right?), etc... What's your (first) experience of being gay been like? Have you had any relationships before, gay or straight? I'm the official question-asker on this site, lol... Feel free to answer if you wish. Welcome.
princealbertofb Wrote:Hello, Matt, and to GaySpeak.... So now that we know all about your hobbies, tell us a little bit about your gay life... Coming out? Not out yet? Trying to come out? Looking forward to getting married (although I think Pennsylvania has not made it legal yet??? right?), etc... What's your (first) experience of being gay been like? Have you had any relationships before, gay or straight? I'm the official question-asker on this site, lol... Feel free to answer if you wish. Welcome.
1. Pseudo out. Mom and a few cousins know for sure. Dad has no clue. He's basically Archie Bunker IRL. Out at work. All my friends know.
2. I'd have to be able to keep a guy more than a few months for that to happen...
3. My experience has been fine, I guess. Lol. It's just life.
4. 3 serious dating situations. 2 ended in me getting cheated on, the3rd left me to get back with his ex. Evidently I was just a rebound. 1
Ah, Matt, that's life indeed. It can throw a lot of shit at you. But... in their wake, these experiences will have taught you just what you need to go for and what to leave by the side. We get more (and less) choosy with experience. What I mean is, you'll be ready to settle for less, if it can get you by and if it can make you happier in the long run.
Hmmm, as a suggestion, join a group of gay activism, if you can adhere to their ideas and maybe find someone like-minded who can become a permanent partner, lover, friend???
I have another question for you. Do you think dad ought to know about you being more attracted to men? If so, how would it help? If not, why do you think he can be kept in total (blissful?) ignorance?
Does mummy mind that you are gay? Are you her only child?
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to GaySpeak.... So now that we know all about your hobbies, tell us a little bit about your gay life... Coming out? Not out yet? Trying to come out? Looking forward to getting married (although I think Pennsylvania has not made it legal yet??? right?), etc... What's your (first) experience of being gay been like? Have you had any relationships before, gay or straight? I'm the official question-asker on this site, lol... Feel free to answer if you wish. Welcome.
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