So I've always been interested in the same sex. But only mildly and never considered making it a reality. But my wife had an affair.
So I'm thinking maybe I should have fun too before heading back to real boring married life.
Maybe I will, or maybe I'll realize it's a dumb idea.
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I'll say what many have said before. If you have accepted a closed relationship of any kind, do not sleep around outside that relationship without permission. It doesn't matter if your S.O. has done it to you. That doesn't give you permission to do the same. I'm not saying what she did was right either.
You have two ethically right choices here. Either discuss having an open relationship with her or break up with her. Then you can go get your jollies on without being a scumbag.
Also, welcome to GS. Sorry if I was harsh on my first response to you. You're still very welcome here!
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Dont use that as an excuse, it will just make things worse and make you feel worse than having her cheat on you.
Too many people use excuses to do something that they end up regretting for the rest of their lives.
Dont fall into that trap.
If you think your marriage isnt going to last or you think its not worth saving, then make your decisions now and go your separate ways. Then you can make up your mind on how to proceed.
Dont play the "because she did it" game. You will only end up hurting yourself.
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I appreciate the advice. You're both very right. I knew that, but it's boring to always do the right thing. And believe me, I have always done the right thing.
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