It it ok to be a virgin at 30 years?

[MisterTinkles]

Being a virgin means you have no past regrets on bad sexual experiences that may leave you scarred for life.
Being a virgin means you have control over your own body.
Being a virgin means you have the stamina and brains to not give in to peer pressure.
Being a virgin means you have respect for yourself, to wait until the right time/right person.
Being a virgin means no extra trips to the Dr. to get STD medications.
Being a virgin means not having to worry about HIV from sexual encounters.
Being a virgin means there are other things more important in your life, than sex.
Being a virgin means you a worthy person to get to know.
Being a virgin means you know how to resist temptations.


Being a virgin means I still have a shot at some men out there. LMAO


But thats MY opinion.

[Ryocchi]

Recently turned 29 and virgin.

To me it's all about love, I do want to have sex, but I only want to have sex with one person, to me, making love is the maximum communion between two people in love, it's expressing on actions everything I can't on words, it is to bare not only your body but your soul, to touch, to caress, to hold, to care, to offer and to take, it's simply something I want to do once I find my partner in life.

Not everyone but most of they guys I've met think I have a rosy view of love and that it isn't at all like that, maybe they are right, maybe they are not, but who's to say that what works for them would work for me?, everyone is different, and I don't believe I'm all that special to be the only one thinking like this.

But I believe I strayed to much of the topic, no, I don't see anything wrong with being virgin at thirty as long as that is what you desire, but it would be a good idea to consult a psychologist to help you understand yourself and why you don't want to have sex, maybe you're asexual, maybe not, overall t may help you understand it better and qualm some of your doubts.

[putresVigil]

Can be for a lot of reasons but I wouldn't judge you for it. For many guys, sex might be separable from emotion; for me it isn't. I know it isn't because even kissing and cuddling with a guy causes me to love them. Intimacy is potent and powerful, to me. Every person I have ever loved I have continued to love and will likely always continue to love. Even my first one who cheated on me, if they were to need my help today, would get it, freely, because I can't take my heart back once given. It is a permanent connection; a permanent vulnerability that I have learned to be careful handing over to others.

Maybe it is similar for you? Maybe not. In any case, add me to the list of those who wouldn't judge you for it. Assuming I am off the mark, have you ever heard of Gray Asexuality? I hadn't, until recently, but it may fit you if you look it up. It is somewhere between Asexual and Sexual - a sort of middle ground. Have you considered it, if you have heard of it?