04-30-2014, 12:48 PM
swalter Wrote:I think if you're gonna suck you should swallow. The few times I got BJs from guys who wouldn't swallow, it left me feeling bad. Like the load was an unfortunate way to end it. To me, it's like going to someone's house for dinner, and not eating. Even if you don't particularly like it, you should swallow to make the guy feel good about himself.
Despite the fact that a lot of information about AIDS says it's best not to swallow? It's a bit of an acquired taste. Maybe your blower enjoys the sight of the semen rushing out? And maybe if you like your partners to swallow, you should tell them you'd like them to? Or at least have a discussion about it. There would then be no hard feelings if he didn't because you knew he wouldn't.
I'd find the analogy more meaningful if you said: "Don't go down on a guy if you're not going to follow through." Don't come to the dinner party if you're not going to eat? The thing is, he may like the sausage but be allergic to the sauce. It's not like you've cooked up something special for him. For some guys, it may also feel like a taboo. Like something that's NOT really supposed to happen. Goodness knows what's going on in anyone's mind while they're giving you fellatio.
Again there may be days when you feel like it and days when you don't. Anyone who's tasted (their own) semen, probably also knows that they're not going to lap it up every time they masturbate. There are other things you can do with semen to make a man feel it was enjoyed.
Make him taste it? Feed it to him?
Spread it all over his belly? Or any other part of his body?
Tangle it in his body hair?
Grease up his shaft with it? Or annoint his genitals with it? (it's a weird feeling when it cools down and dries up)
Pool it in his belly button?
Use it to paint pictures on his chest with your index?
Make a facial mask for yourself or him? Or both?
Wipe him off with a handkerchief or towel?
Smell it?
Watch it as it dissolves?
Squeeze every last drop out of his penis?