Fantasies

[Tulloni]

Just wondering if anyone here has any fantasies or fetishes? I just need to know I am not the only one.

I keep having ones based around bondage and being tied up. It kinda bothers me a little and makes me feel like I am somehow weird for wanting to be tied up in an erotic way.

Some of my other fantasies are typical really. But this one bothers me a little.

[partis]

I have the same fantasy and doesnt bother me, though it would have to be someone i trust and like an awful lot, my ex made hints he wanted to and he was used to putting handcuffs on people lol he would arrest me, read me my rights..... wish we had, it turns me on now im more confident.

[bathhouse66]

Just a muscle built man with 11 inch monster

[Vigilias]

The first thing to remember is that it's just a fantasy - there's nothing wrong with fantasy.

Secondly, if you do want to make those fantasies real, go ahead. As long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, who cares!

That's my take on the situation.

[Rosie]

Light bondage is one of the most common fantasies, walk into any adult toy shop and you'll be bombarded by restraints of all types: silk ties, tape that only sticks to itself, fabric cuffs, leather cuffs, furry cuffs, ball gags made from candy (!!!), they even have sex pillows that restraints clip on to...etc. Even if you're into the harder stuff, it is pretty common too, there is a store in my city devoted entirely to it! I am of the mindset that if it occurs between consenting adults it is a-ok. Have fun and don't worry about it!

[HumbleTangerine]

Pretty much the bondage thing too. It's more common than you think.

[MisterTinkles]

Just a muscle built man with 11 inch monster

Well then.......
here's a muscle man


Here's his 11 inch monster

[MisterTinkles]

Identical twin cowboys.

Mmmmmmmm

[Bowyn Aerrow]

I not only fantasize about BDSM, I have done it.... Granted it has been a bit of time since those days.

I am into Safe and Sane BDSM not RACK

If done correctly with both parties or all parties involved knowing and fully understanding the scene bondage and all of that can be rewarding and fun.

Bondage and wanting to be tied up can be driven by many deeper emotional things - basically it boils down to giving your 'power' over to another. Giving up control is not a bad thing (and in many psychological circles doing it occasionally is really a healthy thing to do).

The act itself requires a great deal of trust. Being able to trust a partner that much has its own rewards beyond the pleasures of the flesh.

You are not 'weird' or sick or anything for wanting to think about it or even do it. There are lot of decent sites that discuss the subject in depth: https://www.google.com/#q=psychology+of+bondage some sites are just crazy and will talk about BDSM outside of the realities of how BDSM is supposed to be done - lots of communication, setting limits, after care - these sorts of things are often forgotten or never mentioned in porn and erotic fiction.

[stu]

Murdering my boss.