The thing that annoys me (even though it shouldn't) is like when people say "if you don't have god then you'll do anything you want, which of course will be vile, depraved, and violent." I have no idea how anyone can believe this!
I used to live 2 blocks from a Catholic church who had members (NOT saying all were this way, but enough were) ran over cats for fun, who blocked driveways very rudely to be sure they could pray for Prop 8 against gays, the church came out against a measure against sex trafficking (and I read their reasons for their opposition and it didn't make sense, others pointed out why their reasons didn't make sense but they had no answer for it but still were opposed which makes me wonder how many of them were involved in the trafficking) and I'm pretty sure the men I fled from who I believe intended to gang rape me for also Catholic. Where was their sense of right and wrong? Plenty of people without god have it, why don't they?
And a small thing in addition, many of the Catholics trashed the neighborhood or at least left the trash around while I cleaned up the place. One part that annoyed me was I saw people cleaning the parking lot of the Catholic church and yet they left dog doo on the sidewalk apparently because it was a few inches/cm off their property and therefore "not their responsibility." Yet I, without God, picked it up and put it a dumpster about a yard/meter away.
But they want to say they're so much more moral and kinder than me? It shouldn't annoy me but it does.
And it was funny, I was made an "honorary Christian" by some homeless people because I got them Bibles and also made fliers advertising for a Bible study for them when even a Baptist preacher brushed them off (I also treated them as decent human beings down on their luck whereas he treated them as sinners punished by God). One said something that going by our "fruits" I was Christian when so many who accepted Jesus as their savior was not.
And Christian fundies tried to make me and my family homeless, they'd rather see the kids on the street than with 2 moms. And thing was had the churches helped right away when her little girl called them asking for help our lesbian relationship probably never would've happened. The girl called me in desperation and I came right over. Later when some fundies (including kids her own age) told her how I was so evil because of Romans 1 (and God doesn't lie) she told them "Then YOU'RE gay because you're the liars, slanderers, and telling me to disrespect my mother!"
In addition most people who say we're evil nihilists without God only say that because their ancestors had been treated so violently and depraved by religious institutions. If it had not been for centuries of slaughter, torture, and terror, then their "loving" religions would not exist today. Heck, even the loving side of their religion was often treated that way, there were many good Christian sects and individuals when it was still new and they were treated even worse than the pagans (because they were blasphemers on top of everything else).
And finally...