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Best Friends with Straight Person
#11
When I came out, I lost lot of friends and now I've very few straight male friends. I've never had any romantic interest for them. I love them very much, but as friends. I respect their sexuality and they respect mine. It's totally possible for gay and straight people to be friends.
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#12
philsguy95 Wrote:Can a gay man/woman be lifelong friends with a straight person of the same gender whom they do find attractive and obviously connect with strongly? Can it be strictly platonic and nothing more is truly desired,

Yes.

Quote:or is it inevitable that all of that will crumble and the gay individual will fall head over heels?

No.

Just ask me and my straight best friend.
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#13
All of my guy friends are straight. I don'tfind themparticularly attractive but they knew me beforeI came out
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#14
Well, I'm straight woman and my best friend is gay guy, but in my opinion it really doesn't matter what your sexuality or gender is. I'd say my friendships are "gender neutral" :biggrin:
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#15
I think the whole a man and woman can't be friends thing is a load of crap.. and applies to your case as well. Almost all of my friends are straight, and quite frankly, because I've been friends with them for so long.. I don't think of them "that way" in the slightest. For me, it'd be like being attracted to your brother or something. I think it's perfectly possible for you to be friends with a straight male.
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#16
My best friend since I was 5 years old is straight. He's very attractive, and never has a problem with the ladies. I couldn't begin to think of him as a sexual partner. He's like a brother to me, and regardless of the fact that he's so attractive, I just couldn't see him that way. And he's not the only one. I've got about a half dozen friends from high school, all straight, and I have no sexual attraction to any of them. Jealousy over something like this is a sign of insecurity and immaturity, IMO.
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