Its been 18 months

[Tongz]

Hello guys,
I have been out of the closet for 18 months now, and i never felt so liberated in all my life. There is this awe-inspiring of knowing who you are without living some Kind of pseudo double life.

Only my sister knows i am gay my other family members will never accept that. I come from a society which abbors homosexuality entirely. I would to make new friends and learn from others experiences. I been alone and i not finding It funny...

Andrew

[CellarDweller]

Hello Andrew...

I'm not sure how to help you. I know there are some very anti-gay laws in Nigeria. You need to be careful.

[southbiochem]

Andrew, I am terribly sorry you live where you live...I admire your courage in coming out

keep us informed about how you are doing every now and then

Be safe, please

[princealbertofb]

Hello, Andrew, and to GaySpeak. As others here, I encourage you not to live the lie but to be a confident gay man. However, it is also a perfectly good idea to remain safe and not to get into trouble for nothing. Hope one day you find a way of being out and completely happy, not having to hide. Nigeria hasn't gone down the right legal route for the moment. Maybe they'll see the light some day soon?

[747XL29]

Welcome Tongz, I was just in Port Harcourt on business a couple of months back. I imagine being able to share with your sister is a great start and huge relief. Be safe !

[MisterTinkles]