When is it definitely gay?

[Kriskabs83]

[quote=Bowyn Aerrow]I'm gay and I don't show my dick to just anyone and do 'sword fights' to prove or disprove my sexuality. Sounds immature to me is what it sounds like.

Love and emotions are more important than just sex. It's about when you find the right person the way you think. I found one. Even though we stay far, it's still that emotional connect which will make us together. As simple as that.