Trusting charade!!
02-05-2014, 04:02 AM
My first post, so bare with me.
Me and this guy really like each other and we seem to have a lot in common. Even when we first met it wasn't awkward at all, (You know what I am talking about...the jitters of meeting someone for the first time?) Anyway we decided to date and see where things lead. As a side note.. he was already telling his sisters and close friends about me, which I found pretty creepy but its whatever. Continuing on.. This past weekend like the day of the superbowl he just stopped talking to me and his phone wasn't picking up. So like almost 2 days went buy and I got a little concerned so I looked for him on facebook.(Keep in mind that I did not stalk him he asked me a week prior to add him on facebook I just chose to get to it another time.)
Anyway I added him and he sent me a message later that afternoon saying that this phone broke and wasn't working at all and was looking for another phone. I was a bit relieved but at the same time a red flag went up so I said ok. He explained that we can only talk on facebook while he is at work until he gets a new phone. Now I haven't had much experience in many relationships but my ex was the type of guy who hated phones and never used them. Long story short it ended badly because he was doing soo many things amongst cheating on me.
You are probably thinking I have nothing to be concerned about but that isn't the case. Like I am getting this deep gut feeling like something is wrong. I mean I found out a couple of things on his facebook that he kinda failed to mention. They aren't a really big deal but its something you could at least tell someone regardless if they didn't ask. I just feel like now he isn't telling me everything and is hiding something. I did kinda bring up how I was feeling and he told I had nothing to worry about. Just can't get rid of this feeling. I know this doesn't seem like a really big issue but It does bother me a little and I just can't seem to understand why.
Me and this guy really like each other and we seem to have a lot in common. Even when we first met it wasn't awkward at all, (You know what I am talking about...the jitters of meeting someone for the first time?) Anyway we decided to date and see where things lead. As a side note.. he was already telling his sisters and close friends about me, which I found pretty creepy but its whatever. Continuing on.. This past weekend like the day of the superbowl he just stopped talking to me and his phone wasn't picking up. So like almost 2 days went buy and I got a little concerned so I looked for him on facebook.(Keep in mind that I did not stalk him he asked me a week prior to add him on facebook I just chose to get to it another time.)
Anyway I added him and he sent me a message later that afternoon saying that this phone broke and wasn't working at all and was looking for another phone. I was a bit relieved but at the same time a red flag went up so I said ok. He explained that we can only talk on facebook while he is at work until he gets a new phone. Now I haven't had much experience in many relationships but my ex was the type of guy who hated phones and never used them. Long story short it ended badly because he was doing soo many things amongst cheating on me.
You are probably thinking I have nothing to be concerned about but that isn't the case. Like I am getting this deep gut feeling like something is wrong. I mean I found out a couple of things on his facebook that he kinda failed to mention. They aren't a really big deal but its something you could at least tell someone regardless if they didn't ask. I just feel like now he isn't telling me everything and is hiding something. I did kinda bring up how I was feeling and he told I had nothing to worry about. Just can't get rid of this feeling. I know this doesn't seem like a really big issue but It does bother me a little and I just can't seem to understand why.
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