In my case, I know that "what I need" and what is "drop dead gorgeous" are very different.
When "man spotting" I group into "relationship" and.........
The.........
group, I know will never become relationship.....
You all know about my "mutt" That was my soul-mate...... For those that don't search a "mutts" tale <use the quote marks>
But this is about
For me, It's about aura. Cocky and self-assured and know-it.
A attitude of "You want some, come get some"
An individulist that put's it out there. chique-tatty, rough-trade, skate-boarder / unique hair style / passive-aggressive / A younger guy that's openly advertising his masculine
sexuality
Off: -
Suit-n-tie / mrs. prissey / I've
arrived, check-out my expensive style-stuff / straight-laced / flamboyent / body-builder / check out my
masculinity*/ unclean appearance / dirty-unkempt-poor hygene appearance. < not the cultivated tatty look but really unkempt>
On: -
Jeans & T with sneakers / biker boy / skinny cut / Jeans and unbuttoned shirt, clean.... headbed.... mohecian / coloured hair <green red ETC> / a boy-man /man-boy aura.
Here, I'm only verbalising eye-candy. When it comes to relationship / soul-mate, everything is reversed. All the eye-candy things drop to the bottom of the list, and all the non-sexuality things become important,with integrity probibly being top of the list as that drags all the really important things through with it.
Gosh, nice thread, that's been difficult. Verbalising eye-candy.....Never done that..