Sex AFTER fissures?

[HopefulHealing]

Some insight needed please! Have been suffering on and off with a fissure or two for years. It seems the big problem is having a tight internal sphincter. I can be dieting well, taking care of myself, taking things slow and somehow every time I try to have anal sex it will rip back open.

I know what the causes are, and what to do to heal them faster after, but I'm tired of dealing with it when it comes to sex life. Even going slow, using gallons of lube, it doesn't matter how much lube, or size of penis, it always seems to tear because it's location and the basic agitation of having sex down there in general. This is sooooo depressing. Have been self-healing and abstaining, put off dating anyone for almost four years and finally started dating someone again, and here this fissure problem is again.

So my question is, has anyone had any luck having anal sex AFTER surgeries, creams, etc?
Has anyone who has had this problem been successful at having sex without ripping it open again?
If I were to go down the doctor's route, would anal sex be possible again if doing botox, special creams or surgeries?

[Cuddly]

Welcome to gayspeak Hopefulhealing.

It sounds like the kind of thing you need a medical professional for. There are anal specialists out there, which were mentioned in a recent thread too. I cannot remember where, sadly. But some actually make a living out of working with those sphincters and the issues they sometimes come with.
Those people have seen it all and our kind of activities will be nothing out of the ordinary As somebody said on that thread I mentioned, to them you're just another asshole.
Is it painful? Does it bleed alot?