so basically, everything he did, even staring at me when he didnt know i was watching, was deliberate? He also talks about girls all the time.
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Closets are for clothes - and sadly even in the 21st Century a lot of people are in a closet as well.
Sounds to me this is one of those cases.
Find out what he wants, listen to him. You said its been years... lots can happen in years.
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Loads of straight guys in work flirt with me constantly - I like it because it shows to me they have no issue with my sexuality and just see me as another guy - they flirt with each other too! It just makes everything normal and doesn't make me feel left out or anything like that at all.
I guess its their way of showing that they don't have an issue with it? I'd be questioning more WHY don't certain straight guys flirt with me but can with others :p
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A straight guy flirting with a known gay guy isn't straight at all, mostly if they're ready to jump the fence. As soon as he jumped that fence that separate straight from gay he also dropped his straight label in the process. I know it's kind of a huge fantasy among gays that straights are hitting on you but if they do they really were not straight to begin with.
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One of two possibilities:
1. The "straight" guy is closeted/bi-curious and is expressing his interest through humor.
2. The straight guy is showing his acceptance of the gay guy's sexual preferences through humor.
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Looks like he was just yanking my chain. He finally made a facebook. He looks very straight and christian (alot of pictures are of him fishing). His friend list is mostly composed of males and his girlfriend is very pretty. This bullying madman put on a totally different persona around me. I was CONVINCED that he was in to me. He looks like a completely different person from what i know. He always told me that "gay people think god loves them but its adam and eve not adam and steve", and he didnt like me texting him because "he has a life".
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Just a horrible evil bully
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