What's on Your Mind

[Wolfpack]

At one of those crossroads in life: should I stay or should I go?

Not a happy puppy where I am. No guarantees I will be happy somewhere else. But it will be somewhere else, and that counts for something, right?

Depends if you unhappiness is just related to where you are living, if not no matter where you go you will take that unhappiness with you.

Sorry if that quote sounded negative, I do hope that you find the happiness you desire.

[Virge]

Ever notice the astonishing amount of times in gay forums the subject of "I'm in love with my best friend/straight friend" comes up? I've been on forums much busier than this, but even here it seems there is almost a daily thread about this. I'm starting to think I should just write and save a standard response and paste it when needed.

For real!
....and the guys writing those threads are almost always closet cases.
it must be some virus they have.

[East]

For real!
....and the guys writing those threads are almost always closet cases.
it must be some virus they have.

LOL...maybe it really IS a virus. You guys are right..it is every forum...

Coming out really does take care of a lot of that

PS...I hope you are getting your ribs "fixed" and that you are not in any pain

I am thinking of going to a 4th of July party later...I usually avoid it. I might even go to Monterey to the wharf...used to go every year....or maybe Phils in Moss Landing.....we could probably see the fireworks if we sat outside by the ocean and ate....hmmmm....what to do....

[Uneunsae]

Wow first you dentist and now your Doctor, you lucky lad

IKR! It was a sexy week of sexy doctors! I'm in heaven. They can treat me anytime!
And the doctor will be giving me lots of massage and acupuncture. I'm glad I'll be lying face down for the treatment hehehe

[Wolfpack]

IKR! It was a sexy week of sexy doctors! I'm in heaven. They can treat me anytime!
And the doctor will be giving me lots of massage and acupuncture. I'm glad I'll be lying face down for the treatment hehehe

Oooh you naughty lucky lad, enjoy your appointments

[Aike]

It was a good day for sightseeing today at the gym. One really hot guy, one really cute guy and one really hot and cute guy.

(I'm a creep.)

[Wolfpack]

It was a good day for sightseeing today at the gym. One really hot guy, one really cute guy and one really hot and cute guy.

(I'm a creep.)

You are not a creep, but it does sound like you had a good day

[Virge]

It was a good day for sightseeing today at the gym. One really hot guy, one really cute guy and one really hot and cute guy.

(I'm a creep.)

You're not a creep unless you started breathing heavy and had a hidden camera on them.

[LJay]

Raining again wondering what happened to the British summer?

wolfpack, I have a favorite book in which the author refers to a in which the author describes a hike he took "...in the very maw of what the British sportingly call summer."

Keep Calm and Tote a Brolly

[50Plus]

You can't know without taking risks. You have to look at what you know now and that is this: What you're doing now isn't working for you. Now figure out what you need to do to make your change with the fewest risks.

Agreed. I do need times to wallow in the pig sty of self pity in order to declutter and gain clarity.

Clarity is wonderful. I am a believer in life experiences and I get bogged down and unhappy when I fall in to a long term routine. That is the basis for my current dark mood - I have fallen in to a rut.

But am now preparing to stretch out. Just applied for a new job 3000 miles from where I live. The stretch is not the big move (have done that 3 or 4 times already), but that I am looking at locales that used to be unattractive. I never liked big cities or eastern Canada. But I do like living contrary to what others (and myself) consider to be in my best interests.

So I just opened up endless opportunities by opening up a shut down part of my brain. And if I really want to go further, there are hundreds of other areas of my brain that I have shut down. But baby steps for now.

Thanks uneunsae - you helped with the decluttering.