Your first time having sex of any kind

[ryanswart]

my first time for it was in boarding school in zimbabwe with an older boy. i sucked him off. i was fourteen. before then yes i had been turned on when stroking a cat and it purred on me but i ahve never done it with an animal and never want to do that

[Uneunsae]

You should look into a vibrator. Hehe.

[ryanswart]

it was just some contact my parents werent very tactile

[Lambert]

My first time With a guy Was really weird I guess. had a friend who liked me and stuff, but with anxiety I felt extremely nervous. Worried if my part looked weird or something or if he found my body ugly. So we kissed for a bit and he undressed himself with only his boxers, Did the same. after a few touching lol . He gave me first which felt good, he want a processional but it was nice. I was scared of the taste and smell lol I was a guy virgin. He was pretty big so I was bad at doing it, but he said he liked it. So yeah it wasnt bad at all, but after it was bit awkward after. No we only did oral, and making out no anal lol

[CellarDweller]

There's nothing wrong with waiting.

I waited FOREVER. I didn't come out until 27, and had other issues as well. I was starting to think I would be on the next "40 Year Old Virgin" poster.

Thankfully, a few years prior to 40, I met a guy who was kind, patient, and gentle, and my first time was everything it should be.

I have no regrets as to who I first had sex with, and look back on it with happy memories.

[AlfredM]

Nah,it's not that waiting is wrong,I just couldn't wait anymore at that time. The urge was overwhelming,LOL. The thought that I have to wait for someone,who might not appear anytime soon,was killing me cause of the urge. I don't think I could wait several years anymore to relieve my urge,but I could wait that long for love,although that will also be hard. That said,I've calmed down now and yeah,I'll be waiting again.

[HIkerSkier]

The sexual encounter you described, as the one proposed by your online contact, sounded revolting. I don';t imagine it would be one that would give you fine memories after it was over. IMO, you would be better off hiring an "escort", if you could afford it - you could have the kind of sex you imagined. I would think you could have a very nice encounter with some visiting foreign tourist or businessman, in his nice hotel room. You just need a way of finding them, or they finding you. Online ads?

[bluefox4000]

Since i'm bi......my first time with a Girl was when I was 15 in Atlantic City. I met a girl.....we chatted a while. she came up to my room while my folks were gambling. So it happened and boy was it fun. I liked it more then the guy experience.

Mick

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Well I have said that I have been with only 8 guys willingly...

Its that willingly part there that I have to wonder about. I mean there is my first love (at age 24) and then there is that other "first time" which wasn't exactly altogether nice.

[BlueStar]

Losing your virginity should be one of the most beautiful experiences in your life. So if you're not relaxed and don't feel ready just don't do it. Control your urge and don't rush in having random sex especially if it's the 1st time, because you might regret it after. Make a wonderful memory instead!!

I've never had sex of any kind with anyone, but I strongly feel the need to, of course when I'm ready & with the right partner