I thought I knew the answer about sex change once but I realized it was arrogant of me to assume I knew what other people were experiencing because they all insist they are in the wrong body....who am I to say they aren't?
Even if I was right on some level...I was wrong to try and negate their very personal life experience because I didn't understand it.
Laughing at them...not cool.
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Swanny,
It would be more beneficial for you to find a transgender forum. Not saying you should leave us here at GS, but many people here don't understand transgender issues so you might get a lot of insensitive comments and "advice" (mixed in with some good advice). I personally wish you the best of luck and hope you have a fulfilling journey on the way to becoming the real you.
I'm intersex and third gender, have been pressured to "pick a side" by my family, and have a few close transgender friends, so I understand what you are going through.
Have you seen a gender therapist? That is the first step you need to take. They will help you with many of the questions you have. Also, they are the gateway to hormones and therapy. Hormones will get rid of your muscles and many things you don't like about your body.
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Don't put pics of yourself in public places because you will attract a lot of mean-spirited people who will say terrible things which will hurt you.
Learn to respect yourself and make boundaries.
Having said that, you do not have big muscles or shoulders. You will look very feminine after hormone therapy.
I encourage you to remove your photos.
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You are a pretty good looking dude.
Don't have a very feminine figure. With little work you could easily build up those chest, shoulder and biceps to look really, really good...errr, masculine I suppose, if you will.
You have some awesome body hair and great leg muscles.
I like your hair as well.
very beautiful, masculine beauty.
Is it your penis you don't like or your male body as a whole, genuinely curious.
Do you want to experience sex and romance with men as a woman or as a man?
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I find you to be a very attractive, 'sexy' guy. Lots of guys would like to look like you.
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