07-22-2014, 03:29 PM
Late one night (like 3am) I am on Facebook when an old high school buddy (acquaintance) messages me on chat and tells me to come over. He is married and has a child, and it being 3am I wonder just exactly what "coming over" means. Anyway I eventually signed off. Time passes and again late one night (this time around 4am) he messages me on chat and tells me that we could have fun, and I should come over, and he gives me his number. I just went to bed instead.
Neither of these chats got overtly sexual. But I have to wonder: why?? Part of me wants to think that he was mocking me by inviting me over (ie- if I did head over he would disappear and I'd look stupid), but even if that were the case people would look at him way weirder than they'd look at me. Another part of me thinks that he has been getting drunk (as I do know he drinks quite a bit) and late at night when his inhibitions are somewhat less, he messages me hoping to explore his gay side. This would be disastrous given that he is married and has a child!
I don't plan on acting on it. But I feel pretty bad about the situation. I don't think I should feel bad since I haven't actually done anything. But I do feel bad. What should I do?
Neither of these chats got overtly sexual. But I have to wonder: why?? Part of me wants to think that he was mocking me by inviting me over (ie- if I did head over he would disappear and I'd look stupid), but even if that were the case people would look at him way weirder than they'd look at me. Another part of me thinks that he has been getting drunk (as I do know he drinks quite a bit) and late at night when his inhibitions are somewhat less, he messages me hoping to explore his gay side. This would be disastrous given that he is married and has a child!
I don't plan on acting on it. But I feel pretty bad about the situation. I don't think I should feel bad since I haven't actually done anything. But I do feel bad. What should I do?