Well, okay. Just some parting words to think about. I gather from your posts you've had some dating and social issues with gay men. Leaving this site, going back in the closet, blaming the gay population as a whole for those problems, these actions do nothing to address these problems. It really seems to be running from from your problems and issues and only accomplishes leaving you alone and lonely. Remember, that is what you are now, but at least when you are putting yourself out there in the dating world, the possibility of finding that someone special exists. The heartache and pain and the failures on the way to getting there, that's the risk you take in looking for the payoff. Most of us who have gotten there had to go through that same thing.
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Well yes I guess I am kind if running away. But to be fair there comes a point where you realise that you're just completely wasting your time, at what point does that time come? Going back to the closet, no, it's not going to make me happy but I can't honestly say being out has made me happy either, if anything the reaction from guys IRL has just made me feel like shit
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That's what happens when you meet shit guys. Packing your bags and calling it quits is not part of the road to meeting Mr.Right.
Do what you think is right, ofcourse, and best of luck with that.
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I don't know why you're leaving but I wish you all the best.
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Okayyyyyyy (I apparently have to do 10 characters)
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I support your decision, but by going back in the closet, you're giving yourself the short end of the stick. You're definitely not meet anyone that way, and you'll be robbing yourself of your freedom.
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Thanks. To be honest as I might have mentioned earlier I'm definitely not meeting anyone by being out either - wish I had been told that coming out isn't always entirely advantageous, as evidenced by the fact that my mother is only just now speaking to me aftern18 months if telling my folks...
Anyway I'll stop boring everyone with the reasons why now.
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Am only a newbie here, but just to say I didn't come out until I was 36.
I met a guy, fell in love and we have been together for eight years now.
I was always the shyest, most unconfident person in the world, but things change.
I hope they do for you also.
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