I waer oversized shirts a lot
They're Comfy
and even if a shirt may make you look a bit bigger (did you try a slightly smaller size in mens?) that doesn't means it's unattractive
Especially to the right person
I thought bears where the Hairy guys
*cringes at the thought of some I've seen* so hairy ugg
if so, then No
more like a jock than a bear, and even then, not very much so
but I do have a problem with classifying people, since I think a bit differently then others
the OP sounds a joke. i can barely see any muscle in the arms and shoulders at all. and if you can fit women size S there's no way you have big arms and shoulders to worry about.
50Plus was being sarcastic. as in, in order to get as extreme results as the OP admittedly wants he'd have to use some really extreme (and ridiculous) measures. not to mention, no surgeon would cut out someone's muscles for aesthetic reasons. fatty tissue can be removed, but not actual muscle.
if you're being serious with the question, just stop training and you'll lose as much muscle as your body can handle.
I'll also Re-re-reitterate, you don't have a bad looking Body Superman200, if I wouldn't rather look more feminine myself, I'd evy you for such nice muscle, without having acces (like some of my friends, and bodybuilders *shivers* too much muscle)