08-17-2014, 02:03 PM
Hi, guys, here is my problem:
I met Mark at this website[gayspeak] in february this year, and we chatted nearly everyday for half a year although we never saw each other in reality. But now his sister is dying because of cancer. He told me about it 1 or 2 months ago and i tried my best to comfort him. I told him death was a part of life, something like that. And I told him to stay strong. But things are getting worse. Her sister`s death is so close and maybe she will die tomorrow. I did not receive his messages since yesterday, which is uncommon for him because we chatted almost everyday as i said. I think maybe next time we chat, he will tell me some bad news. I have no idea how to comfort him. I do not know what to say. I am an idiot. I am not good at comforting. So please someone help me!
I met Mark at this website[gayspeak] in february this year, and we chatted nearly everyday for half a year although we never saw each other in reality. But now his sister is dying because of cancer. He told me about it 1 or 2 months ago and i tried my best to comfort him. I told him death was a part of life, something like that. And I told him to stay strong. But things are getting worse. Her sister`s death is so close and maybe she will die tomorrow. I did not receive his messages since yesterday, which is uncommon for him because we chatted almost everyday as i said. I think maybe next time we chat, he will tell me some bad news. I have no idea how to comfort him. I do not know what to say. I am an idiot. I am not good at comforting. So please someone help me!