Dating

[Anonymous]

If i'm dating someone and i'm still looking and admiring at other guys' profiles in a dating website,
am i cheating on the guy that i'm dating?

[Wardo94]

It depends how deep you guys are in the relationship/dating. You can both have a "thing" and not be official, and also keep your eye out for others. But I would consider it cheating, if you were both fully committed, and agreed that it would be a monogamous relationship.

[BlueStar]

After meeting my boyfriend on our first day, I never opened the website again. But I've already given 1 contact info to 2 other guys to reach me, and after few days of my first date those guys kept sending me messages. They still do, maybe they're desperate, but I won't answer not even to befriend them. IMO it would mean cheating on my partner.

[meridannight]

do you think looking at attractive guys on the street is cheating as well?

[Borg69]

I think it's human to LOOK. ... just don't ACT on it.

If you were looking at porn on the internet I'd be ok with it. I probably wouldn't be happy if you were scamming on local guys on hookup apps.

I'd be Ok with you chatting on sites like this, but not flirting with guys on hookup Apps.

[TwisttheLeaf]

Are you looking and admiring? Or are you considering contacting?

Big difference.

[trywait]

u can peruse the menu; as long as you don't order anything if you're already spoken for in a monogamous relationship

[Virge]

When you meet someone you're serious about you should get out of the dating pool and the hook up sites. That's just common sense. If you're not serious then you need to admit it to yourself and not try to live up to expectations you're not inclined to.

When you meet a guy that means something to you, you'd be crazy not to cut off all ties to the dating sites and all that goes with them.