09-29-2014, 09:52 PM
Hey, there is a guy I've been thinking about a lot recently as I really like him. I met him at a work party with some colleagues and friends but I didn't know him before. We got chatting at the party and I went back to his place and we slept together...
After that we exchanged numbers have spoken to each other quite a lot and have only met up a couple of times but that was out to bars and a club.
Now, he has said lots of different things that make me think he likes me. Such as complimenting my pictures, saying he really likes being with me and that I'm a great guy. He also has said I look hot etc... The last time I saw him a couple of weeks ago which was the first time in a couple of months... We went out on the town but ended up kissing, cuddling, etc and we were quite close shall we say.
He has indicated he wants a relationship (not with me per say just that he wants to meet someone special) yet he talks about grindr. He also when I said I was bored joked that I should meet someone for sex. This was before we met the last time though.
However, he hasn't given any indications he wants to date me, he sometimes initiates texts and sometimes I do. He does say nice things but sometimes it sounds more like a friend.
Problem is I do want a friendship but I would like to start seeing him properly but I'm not the type to make the first move. I don't know whether he sees me as a friend with benefits, or is unsure himself. But I don't want the friendship to be ruined. Is there ways that I can find out for sure if he likes me before I ask him out?
Shall I also not text him for a few days?
Since seeing him a couple of weeks ago I have been thinking about him a lot and getting abit upset about not being sure and being away from him.
Thanks for all advice!
After that we exchanged numbers have spoken to each other quite a lot and have only met up a couple of times but that was out to bars and a club.
Now, he has said lots of different things that make me think he likes me. Such as complimenting my pictures, saying he really likes being with me and that I'm a great guy. He also has said I look hot etc... The last time I saw him a couple of weeks ago which was the first time in a couple of months... We went out on the town but ended up kissing, cuddling, etc and we were quite close shall we say.
He has indicated he wants a relationship (not with me per say just that he wants to meet someone special) yet he talks about grindr. He also when I said I was bored joked that I should meet someone for sex. This was before we met the last time though.
However, he hasn't given any indications he wants to date me, he sometimes initiates texts and sometimes I do. He does say nice things but sometimes it sounds more like a friend.
Problem is I do want a friendship but I would like to start seeing him properly but I'm not the type to make the first move. I don't know whether he sees me as a friend with benefits, or is unsure himself. But I don't want the friendship to be ruined. Is there ways that I can find out for sure if he likes me before I ask him out?
Shall I also not text him for a few days?
Since seeing him a couple of weeks ago I have been thinking about him a lot and getting abit upset about not being sure and being away from him.
Thanks for all advice!