I take it you've suddenly come to the realisation...???
Does she know what prompted this?
Some day, it might be nice to let her know what happened...? Or are you not on talking terms?
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It's not a sudden realisation, it is a decision I have wrestled with for some time. I did love her. Yes she knows the reason for our split, and that ain't easy.
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I'm going to come across many issues as regards coming out, tho I feel energised somehow. My family & closest friends now know thru my explaining why our engagement ended. Some positive reactions, some genuine shock.....
I'm hoping they'll come to me if they have anything they'd like to ask/say.
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So far, no one has said to me that they had any inkling.
I wouldn't label myself gay as such either. I find both men & women attractive, I haven't spent enough time enjoying male company romantically or sexually & that's what I feel the need for right now.
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Fair enough, labels are just that, labels. Rather like undies under a kilt, no need to carry one around if it's not comfortable...
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