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[wayward]

How do I talk to attractive guys in person when the only thing on my mind is sex? Yes, I want sex, but I want to be able to talk about other things than that. I am 21 and a virgin because the last person who approached me for a relationship was a manipulative con artist, and the last person who approached me for sex knew less about sex than I did and wasn't willing to discuss respect or safety.

[Virge]

Hi wayward. I'm going to have to think about that before I answer. In the meantime I bet some of the other guys will be giving you some ideas.