11-29-2014, 12:04 AM
I don’t know if this is the right corner or forum to post this one but I’ll just post it anyway. I remember the article that I have read before somewhere and I thought of sharing it here. To some of us getting tired of our not so good relationship or when to leave unhealthy relationship, maybe this one is for you.
Relationships that suck the happiness out of you.
Give, but don’t get used. Never waste too much of your time on someone who doesn’t value it.
A good relationship doesn’t drag you down, it lifts you up. Listen to positive people and ignore negative ones. People that doubt, judge and disrespect you are not worth your time and attention. Life gets easier when you delete the people that make it difficult. All failed relationships hurt, but losing someone who doesn’t appreciate and respect you is actually a gain, not a loss.
Being alone in the long run is far better than being with someone who doesn’t appreciate your worth. Know your worth. Know the difference between what you’re getting and what you deserve. There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for the people who won’t even jump a puddle for you.
Sometimes, it can be difficult to know when to leave a relationship. Perhaps things aren't great, but they're not too bad either. It's easy to sit on the fence for a while and just let fate take over, but it's better to make a deliberate choice to stay or go. When making this decision, an important question to ask yourself is, "Is this relationship unhealthy?"
The best break-up advice I can give you here is this: YOU HAVE THE PERMISSION TO GO.
Heartbreak is part of life, and your partner agreed to that possibility when he pursued a relationship with you. There are no guarantees in love, and deep down we all know that all the promises in the world can't change the fact that humans sometimes have a change of heart.
Sometimes relationships go sour. Maybe things were good at first, but then your partner revealed his self to be clingy, jealous, manipulative and controlling. Maybe you're stuck in a codependent relationship. Again, you have the choice to move on to a better life.
You CAN'T stay with someone out of a pity.
A relationship is a choice, You can break up with anyone at anytime, and for any reason. It doesn't matter if you've been together 10 days or 10 years. There's always the possibility that one partner will choose a different path.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what could be. Just keep going and keep thingking, “ I may not be there yet, but Im closer than I was yesterday” Inevitably, you will make a lot of mistakes and you will feel plenty of pain, but in life, mistakes make you smarter and pain makes you stronger.
Bottom line: Don’t worry about mistakes to much, because some of the most beautiful things we create in life come from changes we make after failures.
Well I guess that was it, I hope you guys learn something. What I have learned is....
I've learned-
That you cannot make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
I've learned-
That it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. That it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
Relationships that suck the happiness out of you.
Give, but don’t get used. Never waste too much of your time on someone who doesn’t value it.
A good relationship doesn’t drag you down, it lifts you up. Listen to positive people and ignore negative ones. People that doubt, judge and disrespect you are not worth your time and attention. Life gets easier when you delete the people that make it difficult. All failed relationships hurt, but losing someone who doesn’t appreciate and respect you is actually a gain, not a loss.
Being alone in the long run is far better than being with someone who doesn’t appreciate your worth. Know your worth. Know the difference between what you’re getting and what you deserve. There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for the people who won’t even jump a puddle for you.
Sometimes, it can be difficult to know when to leave a relationship. Perhaps things aren't great, but they're not too bad either. It's easy to sit on the fence for a while and just let fate take over, but it's better to make a deliberate choice to stay or go. When making this decision, an important question to ask yourself is, "Is this relationship unhealthy?"
The best break-up advice I can give you here is this: YOU HAVE THE PERMISSION TO GO.
Heartbreak is part of life, and your partner agreed to that possibility when he pursued a relationship with you. There are no guarantees in love, and deep down we all know that all the promises in the world can't change the fact that humans sometimes have a change of heart.
Sometimes relationships go sour. Maybe things were good at first, but then your partner revealed his self to be clingy, jealous, manipulative and controlling. Maybe you're stuck in a codependent relationship. Again, you have the choice to move on to a better life.
You CAN'T stay with someone out of a pity.
A relationship is a choice, You can break up with anyone at anytime, and for any reason. It doesn't matter if you've been together 10 days or 10 years. There's always the possibility that one partner will choose a different path.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what could be. Just keep going and keep thingking, “ I may not be there yet, but Im closer than I was yesterday” Inevitably, you will make a lot of mistakes and you will feel plenty of pain, but in life, mistakes make you smarter and pain makes you stronger.
Bottom line: Don’t worry about mistakes to much, because some of the most beautiful things we create in life come from changes we make after failures.
Well I guess that was it, I hope you guys learn something. What I have learned is....
I've learned-
That you cannot make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
I've learned-
That it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. That it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.