12-30-2014, 03:22 AM
A small development...
We have already spent the night at each others apartments. Being it was the holiday weekend I had a few days off and he works various hours so we spent a good deal of time together.
He'll be coming over tomorrow, he's making me diner which I'm looking forward to. He asked if he should bring an overnight bag...I said for sure on NYE (we are going out to a gay bar) and told him that he could stay tomorrow but that I would be getting up really early to go to the gym and work.
I told him he could stay, sleep in, then leave when he woke up.
He said he could be here when i got out of work if I wanted. That would be NYE...which I'm cool with.
So in order for this to happen I had to get a key card for him to come in and out of my building and a key to my door. So if he leaves he can lock up.
So basically, my new bf will now have the keys to my apartment and probably be sleeping here more frequently.
I know it sounds crazy fast...but it doesn't feel that way.
Maybe I was looking for this and didn't even realize it. I was using grindr to set up dates when it's not really necessary on there. I went out with a few guys and didn't bother with them again. But I knew when I met this guy that I would see him again.
Things moved in a direction I didn't anticipate. I even told some family that I met someone.
We have already spent the night at each others apartments. Being it was the holiday weekend I had a few days off and he works various hours so we spent a good deal of time together.
He'll be coming over tomorrow, he's making me diner which I'm looking forward to. He asked if he should bring an overnight bag...I said for sure on NYE (we are going out to a gay bar) and told him that he could stay tomorrow but that I would be getting up really early to go to the gym and work.
I told him he could stay, sleep in, then leave when he woke up.
He said he could be here when i got out of work if I wanted. That would be NYE...which I'm cool with.
So in order for this to happen I had to get a key card for him to come in and out of my building and a key to my door. So if he leaves he can lock up.
So basically, my new bf will now have the keys to my apartment and probably be sleeping here more frequently.
I know it sounds crazy fast...but it doesn't feel that way.
Maybe I was looking for this and didn't even realize it. I was using grindr to set up dates when it's not really necessary on there. I went out with a few guys and didn't bother with them again. But I knew when I met this guy that I would see him again.
Things moved in a direction I didn't anticipate. I even told some family that I met someone.
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