01-12-2015, 07:39 AM
Hi here is the thing...it was an interesting and unexpected relationship i'm 27 he's 49. It was real love, no sugardaddy stuff or anything like that (we're both broke lol), so he suddenly changed and it started to feel like I was the only person in the relationship so I broke up with him because the situation was killing me. :| I've tried too many times to find an answer about what actually happened... the last time he swore it wasn't because of another guy or something like that and I trust him.
When we are together( even after the breakup) it feels just so good like we so belong together, but when we say goodbye to eachother it feels like we are thousands of miles away ( and we live in the same city)
The last months it was me who's been trying to reconnect and checking if he's ok because he used to get sort of depressive and I worry about him. I know we're not together and he's free but it just hurts my feelings when I see him online on Grindr and he knows I wasn't feeling really good the last weeks but he just doesn't text me or call me as he used to.
My friends tell me that I should take his actions as THE answer I need. But even when I don't have real hopes to get back together...
Can anyone tell me how to ask him about what happened, in a way he actually answers with the true... He's very good with words and avoids confrontation and I'm not so please How can I ask for real truth to a person like him?
I just need the truth
Thanks
When we are together( even after the breakup) it feels just so good like we so belong together, but when we say goodbye to eachother it feels like we are thousands of miles away ( and we live in the same city)
The last months it was me who's been trying to reconnect and checking if he's ok because he used to get sort of depressive and I worry about him. I know we're not together and he's free but it just hurts my feelings when I see him online on Grindr and he knows I wasn't feeling really good the last weeks but he just doesn't text me or call me as he used to.
My friends tell me that I should take his actions as THE answer I need. But even when I don't have real hopes to get back together...
Can anyone tell me how to ask him about what happened, in a way he actually answers with the true... He's very good with words and avoids confrontation and I'm not so please How can I ask for real truth to a person like him?
I just need the truth
Thanks