When is it ok, to have a sleep over?

[Cuddly]

It's only a big deal if you make it one.
Just go with what feels natural and communicate. Also, remember sex isn't porn. You aren't forced to do anything, you can stick to handjobbing if that's what you want. Nobody (worth having) will demand that you fuck or be fucked. Sex is possible without anal, which I imagine scares you slightly.

[Iceblink]

I think Saturday night is the best. People are too busy for a pajama party during the week.

[CellarDweller]

I think Saturday night is the best. People are too busy for a pajama party during the week.

[LJay]

It's all up to you and your friend. Everybody is different. What you must deal with is allowing yourself to go with your own wishes and feelings. Any time is fine. Really.

[lonley]

I know I do not have that much will power to go that many times with out sex! If you are ready to have a sleep over then do it, but if that is all it is and its a no sex night then you really need to discuss this with him first it is only fair !