chicken out every time we want to take the next step

[Lexington]

This must be virgin couples with sex issues week in GS.

Wasn't January "I'm going to lose my virginity to a porn star" month?

Lex

[Camfer]

Have you ever jumped off a cliff into the ocean? You can stand on the edge of that cliff for as long as you want, thinking whatever you're thinking, building up the courage to jump. Eventually, you just jump and enjoy the experience, however it unfolds. Then you find out you really like cliff jumping and you do it again.

[Virge]

Wasn't January "I'm going to lose my virginity to a porn star" month?

Lex

yeah! that was such a great month! Remember December? That was "is the hot straight stud at work hot for me?' month.

[Albie]

I feel you are putting to much emphasis on the magic of sex. You are treating it like a job. You are even giving yourself a deadline.

If you want to be slow, that is fine. Start with hand stuff then graduate to bigger things. At least feel comfortable being naked around him, and then you can be more bold.

Also remember that if he is a virgin, then he cannot be disappointed as you will be the best sex he has ever had.