New here, shell shocked
03-12-2015, 08:36 PM
I'm joining the thread late, so 
Perry, and good luck with your future. My partner was married for many many years before he came out to his ex wife and she still wouldn't believe him, so it's not going to be easy. They are now divorced, however; so things did move on, eventually. We've been together for 12 years now. He suffered from depression badly while he was trying to figure all this out, and it was his kids that kept him alive, in the end. I'm glad he didn't go down that route, but you need to take that depression seriously, although it seems to me you're now dealing with the crux of the issue, so you ought to be feeling better soon.
Good luck.
Perry, and good luck with your future. My partner was married for many many years before he came out to his ex wife and she still wouldn't believe him, so it's not going to be easy. They are now divorced, however; so things did move on, eventually. We've been together for 12 years now. He suffered from depression badly while he was trying to figure all this out, and it was his kids that kept him alive, in the end. I'm glad he didn't go down that route, but you need to take that depression seriously, although it seems to me you're now dealing with the crux of the issue, so you ought to be feeling better soon. Good luck.
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