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03-19-2015, 12:33 AM

I think I creep them out. Many people just don't seem to want to be around me. I can sense hostility from people. It's hard to tell if I'm imagining it or not. I probably enjoy it on some level, though. If it's not my voice that is causing these problems, it must either be my personality or my appearance. Hopefully it's my personality - the rise of social media will hopefully render personalities obsolete some time in the near future, but God forbid people think I'm ugly.

(Note: Sorry if it sounds like I'm being an asshole. I am just trying to be friendly / not take myself too seriously.)

MikeW · 03-19-2015, 02:56 AM

himself Wrote:I think I creep them out. Many people just don't seem to want to be around me. ...

Ok, well, yeah, if you're walking around dressed like this, I suppose that could do itÃ¢Â€Â¦

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03-19-2015, 10:07 PM

MikeW Wrote:Ok, well, yeah, if you're walking around dressed like this, I suppose that could do itÃ¢Â€Â¦

It's funny you should say that. I consider myself quite effeminate. I think that effeminacy can be divided into two main subgroups: camp and creepy. I don't dress well, so I think I fall into the latter category.

03-19-2015, 10:29 PM

LOL That's as straight as you could sound. You have body dysmorphic disorder... but for your voice haha

03-19-2015, 10:47 PM

ffffffff1000000 Wrote:LOL That's as straight as you could sound. You have body dysmorphic disorder... but for your voice haha

It's not that bad. At least there's a logical reason why people hear their voices to be more disgusting than they actually are. I think it's a different situation with appearances. Although I think that loads of boys are handsome, even ones who aren't considered conventionally attractive.

MikeW · 03-19-2015, 11:08 PM

himself Wrote:It's funny you should say that. I consider myself quite effeminate. I think that effeminacy can be divided into two main subgroups: camp and creepy. I don't dress well, so I think I fall into the latter category.

Given your voice, just have a difficult time imagining that you are "effeminate" at all. BUT... even if you were... so F'N what? But, yeah, given what you've said and presented to us thus far, I'm beginning to suspect you have a very distorted self-image.