tobias Wrote:So far 2 ppl called me ugly on a dating app. I gave up and deleted it. I'll be single forever
Yeah, well, no, it doesn't work that way. Your fate is in your hands, not theirs or anyone else's.
"Ugly" is a very strong, opinionated and judgmental word, usually meant to be offensive. Like "beauty" it is in the eye of the beholder, meaning, as [MENTION=22470]Pyromancer[/MENTION] said, their saying that says more about them than you. Did they actually call you "ugly" or did they just indicate they wren't interested? Did you contact them first? If so, how did you go about that? How many others have you had an exchange with besides those two?
If you're having self-image issues related to your appearance, then that's something to be discussed. Appearance can be modified to some extent. There are limits due to genetics but there are also lots of ways to enhance our sex appeal -- if sex appeal is what we're after. "Dating apps" are really mostly about hook-ups, not dating, anyway. Most guys who use them are just looking for a quick fuck. So, if you don't fit whatever sexual fantasy gets them off, then they're not going to be favorably responsive. All of which says absolutely nothing about YOU and your datability, let alone your finding a relationship at some point in your life if that's what you want.
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