Hi Guys! I Have Never Had Sex With A Man

[bolson14]

Hi bolson, glad you are here. What you describe about yourself and your experiences so far doesn't sound so unusual for someone who is inexperienced. A lot of it is trial and error as you feel your way along. So misreading someone is not so odd. You just don't want to fall into the trap of "I know he's straight, but even straight guys want gay sex".
You said you want a bf and not a one night stand, so that means forget everyone who says they are straight. Is it possible that the muscle guy is misreading your signals, too?

You have to learn to read other people for different reasons, too. I don't mean this to sound rude, but you posted your race. There will be guys who will want you just because you are black. Just like there are guys who are attracted to asians, as you are attracted to latinos. There is nothing wrong with that, but it has to go deeper than a surface attraction if it's going to last, right?

Let us know how things go with you.

Thank you for the truth, guys. You are all so right.

I get you Beaux.