I have time to vent now
[MENTION=18508]East[/MENTION] there are tons of guys just like that where I work (no exaggeration). the guy I work with is just like the guy you described only with a much much bigger ego, it's just like working with a 10 year old. for the last two weeks he complained all damn day because he wanted to go home and he just wanted to sit and "talk", meaning he wants to interrogate me all day to snoop around my personal life because according to him because we work together that makes us good friends. he's also a sex-alcoholic, the mother of his kids who he is still with is not enough for him, but he's to grimy looking and immature to find a one night stand so he goes to an escort service several times just to come into work and brag because he just had sex he also refuses to marry his baby mama because she "doesn't make enough". he has practically begged me to hang out with him for the first year I worked with him (again no exaggeration) and most days I work with him he just acts so damn immature.
a lot of guys I work around act immature and want to crack jokes at my expense and then they are surprised when I turn down their offer to hang out after work. I just really don't understand why people at my job are so obsessed with digging into other peoples personal life, when I first started the first question I was asked is do I have a girlfriend and this was asked by 6 or 7 people the first day I was there. then if you don't want to answer my co-workers are so fuckin dirty they'll make enough small talk to make you feel comfortable around them just so they can ask about my personal life again. then I messed up one day and mentioned that I have sisters, now the dirty son of a bitch I work with won't stop asking me to introduce him to my sisters. he was even asking for my address this week so he could come over for our cook out.
sorry long post I know, but it feels so good to type it all out.
it really feels like at work everyone makes fun of me because I'm quiet and I don't have a girlfriend. I did make a fake girlfriend before thinking they would ease up a little but they just kept asking questions about my sex life again. and I really fucked up and asked the guy I worked with advice on facial hair, then I got with my fake girlfriend shortly after so now he claims that he's the reason I get women. I'm really torn right now because I went from a job where I hated the work to a job where I like the work but hate the co-workers and I really want to stay because they'll pay for me to go back to school for another bachelors degree. I think I might try to stay until then, but that's if I don't go into work with a baseball bat to knock a few people out.